Day 1 NAUA Summit
The North American Unitarian Association (NAUA) first Annual Summit started on Octobr 17, 2024 with a evening “meet and greet” session at a Spokane, Washington area hotel. The official first day of the Summit was held on Friday at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Spokane. The Summit was a hybrid event hosting in-person attendance as well as Zoom and live-streaming access. Approximately 120 people from across the U.S. and international locations particiated in the event.
Opening Words
Rev. Dr. Todd Eklof, the minister of the Spokane church and the inspirational founder of the NAUA, opened the Summit with these words:
Why Are We Here?
We are here to celebrate a new beginning for liberal religion and all that we have already accomplished in such a short time.
We are here to hasten and bolster our liberal religious community by building and deepening our friendships and connections.
We are here to prove to each other that we are not alone, and that our congregations and fellowships remain free and autonomous, yet they are not alone in our common hope, commitment, and determination to make our world a better and more just place for all people, our fellow creatures, and our mother Earth.
We are here to promote and uphold our perennial liberal religious values and principles by letting the world know they are not dead, they cannot be removed with a vote nor edited out of existence, and that we have not abandoned our commitment to religious freedom and to the inherent worth and dignity of every person and to all peoples.
We are here to make history, just as Unitarians and Universalists have been doing for centuries.
We are here to prove that despite attempts to demonize, dehumanize, and dismiss us, that we are still standing, still vibrant, still filled with the joy of life and positive purpose.
And we are here to roll up our sleeves and get to work helping to make human society more just, more brave, and more compassionate and tolerant toward one another.
Thank you all for joining me here, at this historic first Summit of the North American Unitarian Association. Thank you for all you have had to endure to get to this place. Thank you for standing with me and giving me strength when it felt like my whole world was being pulled out from under me. Thank you for being here for each other. And thank you for your continued commitment to our historic and hopeful liberal faith and principles. Thank you for all that we have already accomplished and thank you for all the good things I know we will continue to accomplish tomorrow and during the years to come.
Workshops
Two workshops were held that allowed both in-person and virtual particapants to interact and share their expectations moving forward and reflect on the many changes that have ocurred within UUism.
Judi Durham lead a Visioning NAUA’s Future workshop that solicited ideas. The formal assembly of all ideas will occur after the Summit but a sampling of ideas include:
- Develop resources to attract family with children and young adults
- Grow local and regional structures to encourage face-to-face interactions
- Consider ways to raise sufficient income to support the NAUA mission
- Develop a mechanism to help congregations and fellowships hire ministerial staff
- Consider programs such as podcasts to reach college students
- Develop programs to allow people to find spiritual connections
Lynn Jinishian lead a Losing Your Religion: Moving Toward Wellness session that allowed people to reflect on the changes and losses that have happened over the past several years with UUism. This workshop was also developed by Candace Schmidt who, unforunately, was ill and unable to participate. This workshop revealed the pain from the loss of friendships, church connection, and distance that has grown among the UUs in a once closely knit UU community. The encouraging watch word was to keep your eye on a hopeful long term future.
Rev. Dr. Todd Eklof closed the day with a group workshop entitled Kerdcera – The Art of Being Thoughtful. The word kerdcera (pronounced kerd CARE ah) is a mash-up meaning heart and mind. The key components of emotional intelligence are self-awareness, self-control, self-regulation, social skills and empathy. Eklof shared that thoughts and feelings are two expressions of the same experience. The Kerdceran Method has four elements: 1. What are your biases? (This will influence your thoughts and opinions.) 2. Whats’ the what? (What’s the point?) 3. What’s the why? (the reasons or premises) and 4. Does the what follow from the why?
Eklof closed with an exercise in which over 20 people, both in-person and on zoom, responded to a situation about a child being paid by a parent to read. Every answer was different and showed a range of logic and emotion, which was Eklof’s point.
Day 2
The Saturday schedule includes a keynote address from John Wood, Jr, the business meeting to formally establish the NAUA Board and bylaws, and more workshops.
NAUA Membership
The NAUA membership is available to both individuals and institutions (e.g. congregations and fellowhships). Lear more that the NAUA Membership page.
Does this organization really think it will attract younger generations?
UUA RE membership has fallen 73 percent in the last two decades and more than half in the last ten years, so the same should be asked of the UUA and UU in general.
UUA Membership Statistics, 1961-2024 | UUA.org
Rebecca,
Not sure how to interpret your question. Are you suggesting that NAUA should not even try to attract young people?
RE is the key to a healthy congregation and movement. Young families will come when there is a critical mass of similar folk. If RE is neglected, Unitarianism is likely to fail.
Why do you think it will not attract younger generations? What do you think should be done so that it does attract younger generations?
Hi Rebecca, I think providing a day care, during the work wk. will attract young families. My sister ran a Methodist church day care for 17 yrs. in Wisconsin & it was very popular.
Many of the comments about RE and youth based programs came from a “younger generation ” if couples with kids.
On a personal note, let me say that I had something of an epiphany during the first day of this summit, and like all such experiences, it occured to me as though from out of the blue. I have not felt as free, safe, and welcomed in a UU environment for quite some time, perhaps a decade or more. I had truely forgotten what that feels like. No one was “out of covenant.” No one whined about being bullied or “harmed.” No one was walking on eggs for fear of using the wrong word, tone, or inflection. It was adult… Read more »
Recently, more than one UU leader has apologized for accidentally using a phrase that was less than 1000% inclusive. Language that is in common use in our society is now considered anti-woke. I was only slightly offended and annoyed by the apologies, but it did feel like we were back in kindergarten.
Yes, I was able to view the last part of Friday’s Summit, via Zoom, & appreciate Rev. Todd’s presentations
What a fantastic first day! I loved the break-out sessions, especially, as we got to hear and share thoughts and feelings about how this schism has affected us, and how we are coping. I feel, like Frank mentioned below, that we are constricted at UU churches that are under the watchful eye of the UUA, with UUAphiles there to hold people to account, making sure we are not expressing our own opinions, if they differ from the racist “party line.” Thank goodness, my home church is the exact opposite of that, and my heart goes out to those who have… Read more »
Am getting a lot of learning and intellectual stimulation out of the events so far. Great to be with other UU dissenters and to discuss our experiences with the UUA loyalists and how we are trying to cope with them. The programs are enjoyable in themselves and also spur further thought for me. I enjoyed learning the Kerdcera process and will be practicing it some more in the future. Hearing about it also spurred me to think about the question: What would I suggest as a solution to human problems and as a method for humans to thrive in the… Read more »
Now might be a good time to rethink some fundamentals. Are we maintaining some negative aspects of old religions, simply out of habit? Specific example. Do we really need a “minister”? Is a minister not merely an updated priest — an unnecessary relic of superstition? Consider the title “Reverend”. It means “revered”. It’s okay for me to refer to the Reverend Smith, if Smith is someone I respect. But when he refers to himself by that title, it’s either unthinking ritual or, absurd pretentious arrogance. In the real world, it’s unthinking habit. But is it necessary? He could be called… Read more »
OUCH !!!!!
If the management of the NAUA doesn’t make RE a priority, a passion, and communicate this commitment to the broader community, the chances for significant growth are, in my opinion, dim. UU congregations whether in Spokane, Portland, Oregon, Port Townsend, WA, Boston or wherever, are, overwhelmingly, of an elderly demographic. There’s much to love about community oriented Boomers, but biological clocks have a way of running out of time.
Who’s doing the demonizing, dehumanizing and dismissing?